I would go with something close in color to the background of the laundry tile. Using that for all the small areas in question will keep it less choppy.

Dollars to donuts you can't paint any of the "window" frame that dark. You need to check the warranty for color specifications - usually states no colors with an LRV less than 55. So, that might help you decide what to do rather quickly. Same with the door. Going from white to the color you're considering is dramatic. It's usually based on price. Cheaper doors have a smaller range of color options, more expensive usually can be painted a broader light to dark range.

Have you tried to simply contact a glass vendor? I believe a good one will be able to take your existing structure and simply change out the glass to something that meets your privacy request. We have local vendors who can cut out the oval and change the glass to some other shape.

Waht is behind the wall on the left? IMO what ever it is there should be awindow there .Do the same trim on all the windows so like the one on the right. This is kind of MCM so do you want to go that direction? I think that left space was agarge wht isit now. IMO as long as the driveway goes there it will always look like a garge . I need to see a pic from further back to see if there is a way to change the parking. Post the pics here in a comment DO NOT start another post. If MCM is your thing this is my fave for exterior colors , doors and landscping