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Which perennials in your garden are the most well behaved?
Comments (33)Reviewing this thread... Tracy, on the platycodon, that comes in pink/blue/white right? If I remember right, that plant had no pests for me, and stayed in one place for quite awhile, not needing to be divided. The staking was the only drawback and if I remember right, didn't someone tell me there is a dwarf version, that doesn't need staking? I did want to mention that it is the campanula family and if you have trouble with groundhogs, woodchucks, these are one of their favorite foods. All of you in areas that don't have the Lily Leaf Beetle are SO lucky. I would grow a whole yard of them if I didn't have them. With peonies in part sun, I am so surprised they bloom there. Wondered if anyone wanted to recommend particular varieties that are their favorites? Also, do I remember right, that Tree Peonies take more shade than herbaceous? I would think a peony is very well behaved. Hardly ever needs dividing, pest free right? Does it need fertilizing? Again, it needs staking right? I put a tomato cage around the only one I have, but it was too small to need it this year. I've had that Silver Mound Artemesia at the edge of a bed and it was very well behaved, didn't reseed or travel, increased slowly. Nice silver accent and very neat. A number of people have recommended grasses. I love grasses, but early on discovered two issues to be careful with. Some grasses are very big reseeders, especially in the warmer zones. Some are runners which would scare me to death in my yard. So I chose to add a clump grass..pennisetum, not known to reseed here in my zone. I have had one in the same location for 7 years that has not reseeded even one little seedling, has been carefree, about 1.5ft high x 2 ft wide. Has been slow to develop that 'dead in the middle' problem. I really enjoy that grass. The only drawback to remember with even the clump grasses, is they are hard to move, so be sure you really like it where you put it. [g] We attempted to dig it up to divide it about 4 years ago, and gave up. I think we will need an ax to get it out of there. Luckily it is in a place that I can keep it for life..lol. Lychnis...tiffy, were you talking about coronaria? I have that plant in a front yard bed and it has been a heavy reseeder for me. Not sure if it is staying. I didn't know it was a butterfly or hummingbird attractor. I will have to keep a look out for them. Oregano...is that a perennial plant or an annual? I have seen some amazing oregano that are very decorative. I do use herbs in pots in the veggie garden area. Which type do you have tiffy? Veronicastrum...is Culver's Root, right? Does that stay in place and/or reseed? How tall does it get and what do you plant it with? Hellebores...jennie...I just added two plants last year and they have been very welcome. Very easy so far, and long bloom time in the spring. Tootswisc....thanks for that link to the Perennial Plant of the Year site. I will have to go back and check it out more. I added the Carl Forester Grass as a link below. :-) Here is a link that might be useful: Carl Forester Grass..Perennial Plant of Year...See MoreDepressed Beta Fish! Please help me!
Comments (3)I can only add one thing to the above, they are one of the most active and amazing fish when kept in larger, heated and filtered (as you would any other fish but milder water/air flows due to long finnage) and planted tank. Think Asian. Like a puppy dog! They come alive with a wonderful personality. Before mine got sick (as you can see from my posts so learning here myself) he was in a 20 gallon, and would swim all around, chase the other fish and poke at the apple snail.. He would sleep snuggled in a large curled plant leaf, in the area I made a plant bed for him, (in a curve of driftwood that was part in water part out)(little u shaped) then come out at day break. He would swim with the cory catfish up and down with them.. In my opinion, unless one is a breeder and space constrained they should never be in anything 'less' then you would place any other fish. ie the best environment to their natural one that we can provide for them. I looked at photos of their natural environment and nothing like a little bowl with nothing to do, lol. (I realize any tank is nothing like nature, but at least we can try to selectively come as close as possible)... I am hoping to learn more and buy from a breeder and give them the best care... They are worth the effort, I'll say... So from my own experience, larger tank with heater and filter. Fin rot as woeisme said, and may be to late, but Maracyne two seems less harsh then others I tried. (one of mine died, as one thing cleared, something secondary showed up, then finally fin rot, and he just was too tired from weeks of treatment and the stress of it all) both from local store in those horrific dirty little cold bowls. Best to you... Sherry...See Morehelp! my beta is sick
Comments (5)I hope your betta is not acting strange anymore. If I may...a few things might be taking place with your betta. COnsider these questions- How long have you had your betta? How big it the container? How (be exact here) often do you do a water change? How do you perform the water change? How often and how much do you feed? What do you feed? Do you have any real plants in the aquatic setting? If the air bladder is damaged it is due to being overly stressed and some sort of physical trauma to the fish either during transport home, or cleaning of the aquatic environment. Typically, as I have bred and raised bettas for some time, you would want to keep them in an aquatic environment which has some floating plants which are great for oxygenating the water the betta lives in. It also assists in making sturdy bubble nests. It is not typically suggested to do major water changes on the environment if the betta has made a bubble nest. This is a natural instinct of the daddy betta. He is the provider of a nest comprized of bubbles for which his future mate will provide him. When this bubble nest is disturbed, it causes great stress to the daddy and they tend to go nuts rebuilding a nest till the exhaust themselves and eventually pass into the next life. I like to keep my male bettas in tank that is at least 5 gallons. I also retro fit it though with a piece of acrylic that has holes drilled all throughout the acrylic piece. If I happen to find the perfect female specimen, I will purchase her, quarantine her, then place her on the opposing side of the 5 gallon tank and then let fate take its course. You can easily tell if the female is gravid by looking for well pronounced stripes on some of the female species. Or, watch the male betta court the female. Try using Novaqua and Amquel in the water every time you change it. Do not remove more then 25% of the water and dont wash the gravel in tap water. This will kill off the nifitying bacteria essential for proper level of ammonia, nitrite and nitrate to be in the system. The Amquel and Novaqua are essentials. One removes ammonias/chloramines from tap water and the other adds protective coatings to the slim coat of the fish. Make up gallon jugs of tap water and put the recommended dosage of Amquel and Novagua into these containers and put those containers somewhere where they will be safe. Room temperature is best. Get parrots feather or anacharis and put it in the tank. It will float on the top and oxygenates the water which is needed. It is not recommended to use an air pump in a betta tank because this causes disturbances on the water surface which tend to break up bubble nests and again, causes great stress to the male. If you do decide to try and give the Prince of the Pond a little enjoyment and purchase that female betta, watch him carefully...the more he courts her, the higher the possibility that she is gravid and ready to give him her eggs. Make sure there is a bubble nest present. Gently lift the acrylic panel only about 2-3 inches off the gravel bottom. Eventually the female will swim under this barrier and then the fun begins. You will see him court her hard. It will look as if he is constantly swimming around her and wrapping around her. This is NORMAL! The male betta literally expresses the eggs from his lady. His body wraps around hers starting mid section moving his body to expres the eggs. Once the eggs are expressed, they gently float to the bottom of the tank where daddy will do one of two things. He will get super aggressive towards the female at this point. Chasing her around. Once you see this happening, it make things go faster and help the male out, gently nudge if you have to...the female to the other side of the tank and close the barrier. Most times she will run to the other side on her own cause she wants to live. Once the eggs are expressed the male wants nothing more to do with the female (no comments please) If you leave her on that side with the male he will eventually kill her. His mission now is to get those eggs, his prodigy into that bubble nest. Remember this is instinctual for these types of fish. actually many fish. If they cant breed what else is their purpose. If you can successfully get them to breed, you will have a happy and content little fella. However- Once you are successful at getting those eggs to hatch, you need to quickly place those babies ont he other side and start prayin. Cause then that sweet adorable loving daddy betta is going to try and eat his prodigy as quickly as he made em. Such is the cycle of life....See Moreanti-depressants
Comments (11)I was on Lexapro for about 3 years. It helped w/ anxiety & sleep problems, however I wanted to discontinue because I didn't cry anymore, felt I was having some brain-failure moments (I made some mistakes at work), brain zap feelings & my husband and I both agreed I was a little too unconcerned about things. Anyhow, the shrink who prescribed said any withdrawal symptoms were 'in my head'. I tried weaning myself and was so nervous, I finally made an appt w/ a psychologist so they could sort of hold my hand thru the w/drawal. She was great. She saw me as needed and said she had heard about this many times. My withdrawal was tapered & slow. I negotiated 3 weeks off using sick time w/ company nurse, however never used it. I recall my bothersome symptoms include involuntary leg movements as I was trying to go to sleep and headaches. For about 2 months, I had some crying episodes at work. I would cry for little reason. Finally had to explain to coworker who sat next to me--- I wanted her to know I hadn't come unglued, it was the meds. Don't remember much else - it's been a few years, but it was definitely a big deal for me....See Morequeenbb
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