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Comments (14)Thank you all! I'm grateful to be remembered. There's been so much fun and celebration lately I'm a little overwhelmed. Earlier in the week I went out to dinner and Cirque du Soleil with a couple of good friends. Yesterday I had my third of three cocktail making classes, went home to recover from the "homework" for a little while, and then went to an unbelievably fabulous dinner with a couple we really like to celebrate her birthday and mine, which are within days of one another's. Tonight, this same friend and I are ditching our husbands to go out and celebrate all over again with a girlfriend. Tomorrow night Steve and I are meeting a couple and their young child for dinner to celebrate my birthday and her "Name Day" (a big deal in Eastern European circles). Later in the week Steve and I hop on a plane to spend nine days in Lisbon, Portugal. He's speaking at a medical conference and I'm along for the adventure. I have a market tour/cooking class scheduled for myself on one of the days he's busy, and I'm confident I can entertain myself for a couple days until his conference is over and we can both go play for the rest of the trip. I'm still tutoring ESL about six hours a week, and learning new things at work. In a nutshell, I'm busy, but it's mostly "good busy." Dorph, I love the whole pagan-fertility-festival aspect of my birthday. Spring is, by far, my favorite season, and if I could have chosen a day to be born, this would have been it! mwheel, be careful what you wish for! Here are a couple photos I snapped earlier today: Izzy is on the "injured reserve list" after piercing her paw with an unknown object while standing in nasty dirty muck yesterday (she was having a the time of her life up until that moment). She's dazed and confused on pain killers and doesn't seem to mind her inflatable airplane pillow at all. This is Toolie out by the daffodils in our back yard. She's getting so big, but is still much smaller than Izzy. Tallulah isn't very good at sitting still for photos. This one made me laugh....See MoreMay 2019, Week 1, If April Showers Bring May Flowers.....
Comments (43)Nancy, Keep an eye on that pink evening primrose. It is determined to conquer the world. It should be a great potato year, but only time will tell. It would be a better year for everything if only the sun would shine. All the foliage in the world isn't useful except on plants grown only for their foliage. We need sunshine to get fruiting plants to fruit. Jennifer, I hate to hear that about the standing water--it should drain away fairly quickly. You can want apples all you want, and go ahead and stamp your feet if it makes you feel better, but apples are very challenging here and do not produce reliably. (There's a reason you don't see apple orchards in Oklahoma.) I don't even bother with them because of all the frustration that comes along with them. Friends of mine who "try" to grow apples (their words, not mine) do not get a regular harvest---maybe once out of 4 years, and if you aren't spraying regularly at the right stages in the plants' reproductive cycle, then coddling moths, plum curculios and other pests infest the fruit. With a lot of the apple trees people I know have attempted to grow here, about the time the trees are old enough to bear fruit reliably, they get fire blight and begin to die. Are your columnar apples growing in containers? If so, that might be the problem as this would make them more prone to stress of all kind. Your apple trees didn't have to be exposed to freezing cold temperatures while in bloom in order for the fruit buds (if the tree tried to form them) to die. They can die from cold exposure before they ever even attempt to bloom. The only other things I can think of that would affect apple trees fruiting would be (a) age of the tree---too young to bear fruit reliably, (b) too much fertilizer is keeping it strongly vegetative, or (c) pruning at the wrong time---does one even prune columnar apples? No one I know grows columnar apples except for you, so I don't understand what pruning is or isn't done to them. People here also have a hard time getting their apple varieties to bloom together for cross-pollination---even after they selected apple varieties that ought to be in bloom at the same time. Trees tend to do their own thing. It isn't too late to sow dill seed. I just scatter handfuls of it here or there...if you have a place where the seedlings could be protected from the chickens. dbarron, You're further north so flowers probably are further behind there, but all the flowers here are spectacular this year---wildflowers, cultivated garden plants, shrubs, trees, even tomato and pepper plants have set a lot of blossoms extra early....anything that has a visible flower has been the prettiest ever. We have wildflowers we seldom see, likely because we don't get enough rain for them...so they only pop up in the occasional very wet year. All my flowers are early this year but I'm not complaining. I think they'd be even more spectacular if the sun would shine on them occasionally, but we'll never know because, apparently, the sun isn't going to show its face here again. Well, it has to return at some point. I hope you will get a spectacular flower show there like we are getting here. Jen, I am so sorry about your beloved dog. Please accept my most sincere condolences. Losing a furbaby is so very hard. I hope you are comforted by the knowledge that your animal companion lived a long, happy life and knew how much he was loved. Rebecca, While I appreciate having rain (since we tend to run more towards drought here most of the time) I hate when it interferes with planting time. You must have gotten our Thursday-Friday rain up there, because the 1.5-2.5" they said we likely would get over those two days completely missed us. I'm not complaining. They canceled the river flood warning and everything, because without that rainfall, the Red River didn't come out of its banks although it came close. We still have other flooded areas and damaged roads, so more rain just would have made things worse than they already are. Our ground still is too wet for planting though. Maybe tomorrow or the next day. If only the sun would shine and dry up everything somewhat. Jennifer, We are having the sort of weather that potatoes like. Some years, by this time, we're already hitting temperatures that they don't really appreciate. We have the girls here today, so there won't be much time (probably no time) to garden or plant shop. We're going to take them Mother's Day shopping so they can find something to give their mom next weekend. Last night they picked out Mother's Day cards and then, when they called their mom and Chris to tell them good night, they started telling her they had bought her Mother's Day cards that they described as 'hilarious'. I think if I hadn't stopped them right then, they probably would have told her what the cards looked like and what they said. They love surprising their mom with gifts on all special occasions, but they aren't good at actual surprises and they aren't good at waiting for the holiday to actually arrive. I'm pretty sure we'll shop for gardening tools and such because Chris and Jana really are getting into gardening now that they have a yard that is their own, instead of a rental. I'll have to give the wrapped gifts to Chris to put up on a high shelf and hide until Mother's Day. The kids' grass seeds (a shade blend of grass seeds that tolerate shade) sprouted this past week despite heavy rainfall and Chris was excited about that. It won't be a permanent lawn as they intend to have no front lawn---just really lovely, somewhat formal plantings of evergreen shrubs and perennials---but the grass should prevent erosion until they can get their new landscape installed. There was a serious erosion issued in one area behind their old retaining wall this week, and I think there's now a structure issue (a crack in the wall) and a big gully right behind the wall. I think replacing the wall must be the major yard project for this summer. We believe their retaining wall is the original wall from the 1930s, and one of their next door neighbors kindly saved one large stone from it that had collapsed and fallen on a portion of the wall some time ago---I guess this was after the house went on the market back in winter and no one was living in it. His retaining wall is peculiar (and there are others just like it in his neighborhood) in that it isn't stacked stone. It is like they graded a slight slope into the wall, laid down flagstones that are maybe 1-1.5" thick, and mortared them together. It actually is amazing it has lasted as long as it has because there's no proper footing, no,gravel for drainage, etc. After he did his proper research to determine how to build a retaining wall, he was shocked at the apparent shoddy construction of the one they have now. I just told him that times have changed and the wall he has now likely was considered perfectly acceptable at the time it was built...and it has stood the test of time. They are at the planning stage now, and would rather be at the planting stage. Chris has been researching plants and has asked gazillions of questions this past week. He is big time into planning and proper soil preparation, so he's done his jar soil test (5 of them from various locations on their property), etc., and knows what kind of soil he has (sandy). Now, I need to get him to do an OSU soil fertility type test. He, Jana and Lillie all have made lists of plants they want---right down to the variety of tulips and other bulbs they each prefer--and now are working on consolidating their three separate lists into one list and cutting it down to a manageable amount to plant. I think he said their tulip list consisted of 40 varieties and needed a lot of editing. I cannot help him with reducing his variety list---I'm no good at that task. It is fun to discuss all their plans with them as they plan their work---I do love seeing an old neglected yard brought back to life with great landscaping, and I have no doubt theirs will be spectacular. Dawn...See MoreMay 2019, Week 2, Are We Gonna Need A Bigger Boat?
Comments (57)Our heater came on last night, Jennifer, and this morning. Oh you have dresses, don't you? Of course you do. LOL The strawberries at school are stretching up, too. I ran in this morning to see how things looked (wet in the low spot, but great everywhere else. And then back here to mow, and then weeded a bit. But on days that I mow, I mostly don't do a lot of other stuff. And sometimes NOTHING else. Garry had to get under the deck and put a cinder block under the steps supporting beam, as the steps had sunk some on one side. That was just about an all day project. Now we need to go get a couple pieces of lattice. And I need him to get the deck power-washed so I can get to painting. I am shocked--rain tonight and in the morning? Wow. I had a BUNCH of petunias coming up in the wheelbarrow. This morning I noticed they were all stripped to the stems. What is odd is that I have larger petunias in many other containers and they are untouched. I sure hope they STAY untouched! Do any of you have any idea what could have stripped those? It was a great day for mowing, but every time I went out just to sit, too chilly, so then I'd have to go walk around. There's not much action in terms of color. Stuff is happening very slowly. Verbena bonariensis, spider wort, hollyhock zebrinas are filling in, and the nicotiana, petunias, astilbes, and rose campion are JUST beginning. The hydrangeas are enormous, but taking their sweet time to bloom. Since they've been here (this is their fifth year), this is the latest they've been; usually by now they're in full bloom. I'm kinda liking this. I was looking at photos from 2 yrs ago. We are a couple weeks behind we were then. All's good out in the vegetable beds. I am a little freaked out with the flower beds. Remember, I panted SO many things last year. Sort of knew this could happen. . . . I see stuff coming up. Not remembering what I planted. Being fairly certain what's weeds and what's not. BUT just because I realize something is not a weed, doesn't really mean I have any idea what it is! There's a clumping plant out there--an obvious member of the mint faily (wow! Way to narrow it down, right? LOL) But it has no scent whatsoever. Rule out most herbs, right? The tiny worrisome part is that it is also sprouting in the veggie raised beds. . . What did you do now, Nancy! I know I have hyssop out there, several basils, but what else, no idea. No excuse for being in this position. Oh, wait. I have a list of stuff I planted out there in all the beds. I will have to retrieve and figure it out maybe. THIS year I was very careful to plant the labels with the plants. And then got the green beans mixed up with the okra, and now I'm not sure which is which. No matter--they're in styrofoam cups. I expect they'll let me know who is who. I soaked them all first, so they're sprouting up in record time--like 3 day was the earliest. I had ordered five aster tataricus from this obscure (obscure to US in OK--might be famous as all get-out in northern CA) nursery called Digging Dog Nursery. I ordered them in February. When I researched them and searched for sellers, this was the first one I found after much time looking. So it was a complete crap shoot. Then my debit card had a couple unathorized charges in Feb/March, so ordered a new one. Got an email from DD that my number didn't work; didn't see the email until maybe 7-10 days after they sent it. So called them frantically with new number. Then nothing.. . . 7-10 days later, got a voice mail from them saying perhaps they got the number wrong, could I call them. Well it was in the middle of a bunch of other stuff--plants for the school, phone calls from church people, and some family stuff. I totally forgot. But when the plant didn't arrive about when they should have, I called the nursery and wondered what the status was. She reminded me she'd left me a voice mail. I tell ya, friends, I am losing it!! BUT!! My plants arrived two days ago. They look healthy and perky. Do you all remember when I SO wanted my burn weed (which Jason identified correctly, of course) to be the aster tataricus. Well. At least the burn weed led me to the aster. I'm excited to see how it does. https://www.finegardening.com/plant/tatarian-aster-aster-tataricus Isn't it a riot to see the pains we all go through to get the plant of our dreams!! And of course, it's a toss of the dice....See MoreMay 2020, Week 4, The Rainy Week....
Comments (100)Farmgardener, I am so sorry about your tomato plants. Being rural with lots of herbicide-loving people around, we get drift every year and, yes, it is heart-breaking and frustrating beyond measure. Some years we get it once or twice and other years we get it 5 or 6 times a year. So far this year, I think we've had it only twice, and only tomato plants were affected. One year they got virtually all our okra and watermelon plants, a lot of flowers and some of the tomatoes. I grow peppers near my tomatoes and they rarely get damaged. I don't know if it just luck on the part of the pepper plants or what, but they always come through it in much better condition than the tomato plants do.For years and years it seemed like we only got Round-up Drift because the people nearest us were using Round-up along their fencelines to control weeds. After about 5 or 6 years of that (and I don't know why), everything abruptly changed (maybe they were hiring someone new to spray) and the use of Grazon-type herbicides exploded here and everyone began using that crap and now we seldom see Round-up damage, but we get broadleaf herbicide damage several times a year. It is heartbreaking, and I now raise about a dozen tomato plants a year in large containers that I have tried to strategically place where no drift can reach them. They still were damaged last year, but so far this year, the tomato plants in containers haven't been hit like the ones in the garden have. There's just a couple of hundred feet between them. Jennifer & HU, The survival garden looks great! Y'all are going to be getting some great harvests out of that. Y'all know that you can grow lettuce indoors on the same light shelves where you raised seedlings, right? Or microgreens. Or sprouts. With all the heat we have here, that's about the best option for fresh, home-grown summertime salad greens. HJ, Lilies are fascinating and we grow more and more of them every year because our granddaughter, Lillie, believes we should. : ) I am amazed at how much further ahead were here this year with the blooms of the lilies, but perhaps it is because ours bloomed really early considering far south we are. They finished blooming here about a month ago. I think the warm of days in the 90s in late March or early April set them off early, and once we returned to cooler weather, it didn't matter---they already were set to bloom early. We have them in a lot of different colors, including white, pink, red, yellow and peach, and I have to grow them either in containers or in tall, hardware cloth-lined beds because voles will come out of the woods and into the garden and eat all the lily bulbs if the bulbs are not well-protected. There are not many types of bulbs that voles won't eat (mostly allium, garlic and daffodil) so I'm limited in what I can plant. Well, also crinum lilies never have been bothered, and neither have cannas, and daylilies. I think they can and sometimes do eat daylilies but just haven't done it in recent years. Nancy, I've always gardened for the pollinators as well as for us, but we have ample sunny space, plus we never wiped out the native plants that existed when we bought our land, so that made a huge difference. All I had to do was plant to supplement what was here to begin with. In our first handful of years here, the old farmer crowd gave me hell for growing "weeds" (i.e. herbs and flowers) in my garden, telling me that Tim and I couldn't eat those. I just had to point out that the pollinators could and would eat them. Those guys meant well, but were trying to turn me into a row farmer with monoculture rows of veggies and no herbs and flowers and I wanted to be a raised bed gardener with all of it mixed together. So, in that sense I won....but it was, of course, the pollinators who won. Later on, I had more of a monoculture row garden in the back garden after we built it in 2012, but then the voles are a terrible plague back there, so that area is not utilized as much as I'd like---it depends on how much I want to fight the voles. The girls and I spend endless hours outdoors when they are here, and they love the butterflies and moths as much as I do, so much so that they hate to see bad caterpillars, like army worms, put to death. Now, I'm trying to teach them not to be afraid of the seemingly dozens of kinds of bees we have here, while also teaching them to respect the hornets and wasps and give those guys a wide berth. Yesterday when the kids were out of the pool for a snack break, a butterfly came and sat on Lillie for about a 15 minutes and she was so mesmerized by it. It sat on her bare skin part of the time and on her neon bright bathing suit the rest of the time and was in no hurry to fly away. Jennifer, I think that if the only flowers we had were the front wildflower meadow, the pollinators still would be deliriously happy, particularly this year. Between the overseeding of that area with a wildflower mix from Wildseed Farms last spring and the abundant moisture, we have the best mix of wildflowers in there that we've ever had. It is starting to drive Tim crazy---usually he can mow the wildflower meadow down after the Spring wildflowers have gone to seed and before the summer wildflowers are coming on strong but this year the spring flowers lingered a bit longer than usual and the summer wildflowers started up already, so his need to control the meadow by mowing is dead in the water, and the wildflowers and I are delighted. He had to content himself with mowing only the yard and the back pasture yesterday, where there were not nearly so many wildflowers this spring, perhaps because of drainage issues back there and all the standing water. Perhaps I need to overseed that area back there with wildflowers next fall. Would that be too diabolical? It might interfere with him mowing in that area if we got a better stand of spring wildflowers back there. I would think just the acre around the house would give him enough mowing to keep him happy, but he could be happy mowing all day long. He starts twitching and practically breaking out in a rash when I discuss our plans to replace lawn around our house with hardscaping and raised beds. He is afraid I won't leave enough for him to mow, and I keep telling him that having less to mow as we age will be a blessing and to just wait and see. Nancy, We live in what is usually a dry grassland area, so I've never wanted a weed torch. I think they can work for people in some situations, but am not convinced I am one of those people. Maybe it is because we spend so much time fighting grassfires in our county in the summer, winter and autumn...and sometimes early spring in the dry years. We also don't have stone pathways to maintain and I can see where one would come in handy there. Marleigh, You've got to kill whatever you've got to kill to keep your garden going. Over the years I've found I have to kill less and less because all the beneficial creatures take care of a lot of it for me. There is a huge difference in wet years like we've had in 2015-2020 so far, and the dry years that mostly plagued us from 1998 when we still were clearing our land prior to building the house all the way through 2014. In the dry years, the pest level rises along with the drought and I spend far too much time and effort on killing excess damaging pests. The way I grew up was that you planted about four times as much as you wanted/needed so that the wild critters could have what they wanted and you still had enough left for yourself, and that seems about right here in OK. The only area where planting extra for the wild things doesn't work is with fruit---they want it all, no matter what, and you have to fight them so hard for every bit of fruit you grow. I have gotten to where I grow less and less fruit as the years go on because I get so tired of the endless fruit wars with the wild things. Our cats have become much more indoor cats than outdoor cats over the years. As they age, most of them have seemed content to sleep in the sunroom, where the sunshine and views of the great outdoors are endless, and now are happy most days just to go out for a quick hour or two and then come back indoors. They don't bother wild birds much because I trained them (with a water gun....everyone needs one Super Soaker to blast cats away from little wild birds) to leave the wild birds alone. Now, when I am out and the cats have done the brief tour outdoors and want to come in, they come and find me and meow for me to come up to the house and let them come inside. This year's perpetually wet, puddled ground probably has contributed to that a lot. Tim and I joke that our cats have become too conditioned to the great indoors---dry "ground", no snakes or annoying biting insects, no bobcats or coyotes chasing them around, and perfect climate control so they're never too hot or too cold. There's a lot of truth in that though. Even Pumpkin has become very much an indoor cat even though he's not as old as they others. When our cats are indoors and the coast is clear, the feral cats, neighborhood barn cats, etc, come over to visit and hang out. As long as I grow catnip, we'll never be cat free. We were outdoors more than we were indoors yesterday and the weather was just perfect---clear, sunny skies, not too much wind, and neither too hot nor too cold. I think most of this week will be that way, but our highs are moving into the 90s by the end of the week, so it looks like June weather is arriving right on time. I was looking forward to mealtimes as a way to use up a lot of tomatoes---BLTs for lunch, tomatoes on hamburgers at dinner time, chopped up in salads, etc. but then I harvested more tomatoes and brought in just as many newly harvested ones as we had used up in our meals so the pile of tomatoes on the counter is the same. I haven't even harvested the cherry tomatoes yet this weekend, but I'm going to do that today. You know that the tomato harvest is going well when we're looking at the tomatoes on the counter and hoping we can hurry up and use them up before I bring in more. lol. That's a change from looking at them longingly on the plants and wishing they would hurry up and ripen. We're probably about to get to the point of needing to make salsa in the next couple of weeks just to stay caught up on the harvest. The tomato plants in pots are doing great, and the ones in the ground that were planted much later because of the nonstop rain are coming along pretty well. Mosquitoes are a huge issue now, and I am sure that will continue for weeks until we get good and dry. It is the end of May and we all survived it, with a lot less weather disruption than we have some years. Well, the heavy pounding from the rainfall was disruptive, and so was the hail when and where it fell, but it seemed like we had a lot fewer tornadoes statewide than usual. The nights still feel kind of cool to me for this late in Spring, but I bet that's going to change in June. Dawn...See Morehwy20gardener
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